If you’ve ever found yourself in a dry spell, struggling to get some action for months or even years, you’ve likely noticed how this lack of intimacy impacts your interactions with women. When you’re sexually frustrated, it shows. Your attraction and seduction game will suffer, and your efforts to take things to the next level often fall short. This can be incredibly disappointing, especially when you think you’ve finally met someone who could end your dry streak, only for things to fall apart at the last minute.
What’s happening is that your sexual energy is off the charts. When you haven’t had sex in a while, especially for months or years, your energy becomes more noticeable, and it works against you. It’s very different from when you’re regularly having sex or dating multiple women. Sexual frustration becomes a problem when you’re alone, and it starts to affect your interactions with women.
High Sexual Energy and Low Self-Esteem
Imagine this scenario: You see a woman in a revealing outfit, with a short skirt and a deep neckline, and she approaches you because she’s a friend or acquaintance. At this moment, your high sexual energy might throw you off. Instead of being confident and focused, you may start staring at her cleavage or feel nervous, causing your attention to wander. You might even struggle to form coherent sentences. You’ll start feeling awkward, stuttering, and sometimes shaking, which is very noticeable. Women are keen observers and can pick up on these signs. In fact, they’ll immediately sense that you're nervous and possibly interested in them, but the way you handle this situation will make or break your chances. In the end, you may come across as someone who can't control himself.
The Solution: Managing Your Energy
A key tip here is to avoid resorting to masturbation to release that built-up energy, as it can be addictive and depressing. Instead, consider paying for an escort as a way to release that tension. Many escorts offer services at reasonable prices, and while this might feel like an emergency fix, it helps to release that pent-up sexual frustration. You might have personal preferences, so if you like blondes, go for one, or if brunettes are your thing, pick one. Just go with the flow and enjoy the moment. Don’t overthink it. Your mind might try to tell you that paying for sex is wrong, but let’s face it—sex is sex, whether you pay for it or not. You’re putting in money, and that’s an effort in itself.
How Paying for an Escort Improves Confidence
By engaging with an escort, you’ll notice a shift in your confidence. You’ll feel more secure and capable when it comes to attracting and seducing women. Trust me, the difference is real. After having satisfying, fulfilling sex with an escort, you’ll be surprised by how much more empowered and comfortable you feel in your interactions with women. But be careful when choosing an escort. Don’t settle for someone you’re not attracted to. If you prefer slimmer women, don’t settle for someone who doesn’t match your preferences. I’ve made that mistake before, spending money on an escort who didn’t meet my standards, and it left me dissatisfied.
Controlled Sexual Energy and Its Role in Seduction
When you learn to control your sexual energy, you’ll find it easier to attract and seduce women. Controlled sexual energy will allow you to remain calm and focused in the presence of women, rather than letting your libido cloud your judgment. As much as sex with a woman you’ve seduced is much more rewarding than with an escort, the truth is that it’s all in your mind. Whether you’re with an escort or a woman you’ve seduced, the act of sex itself is the same.
Mastering Your Sexual Energy Without Artificial Help
While hiring an escort can be a quick fix, a more sustainable solution is learning to control your sexual energy without relying on external help. This is difficult, as it involves resisting the urge to masturbate and the constant temptation for real sex. It’s a mental challenge, and you must learn to avoid letting your frustration show when you’re trying to seduce someone. It’s tough, and that's why I recommend paying for an escort, even if it’s just for a 30-minute session—just to release that pressure.
Keeping Busy to Control Sexual Urges
To avoid falling into the trap of masturbation (which is a bad alternative), you need to keep your life busy with activities like work, hobbies, social events, and exercise. Physical activity, like going to the gym, is one of the best ways to distract yourself from sexual urges. After a strenuous workout, you’ll be too exhausted to care about sex, and that exhaustion will shift your focus away from your sexual desires.
The important point here is to stay occupied at all costs. Staying home with nothing to do is the worst decision because that’s when all the sexual thoughts start creeping in. Thoughts like, "I should be having sex with the hot neighbor," or "I wish I was at a motel," or "I’ll just masturbate." Sitting idle at home with nothing to do is a terrible idea. As the saying goes, "An idle mind is the devil’s workshop."
Final Thoughts on Controlling Sexual Energy
Controlling your sexual energy isn’t easy, but it’s not overly difficult either. With determination, you can achieve it. When you stop obsessing over sex, it will come naturally. Life is full of surprises; once you stop trying too hard, things tend to fall into place. But don’t rely on this happening automatically—don’t give up, don’t burn out, and just keep trying.
