Is it Worth Investing in a Relationship with a Modern Woman? Understanding the Risks, Pros, and Cons
With the rise of feminism in every aspect of society, from laws to everyday life, many men are now questioning whether it’s worth investing in a relationship with a modern woman. What are the risks? What are the pros and cons? In this article, I'll explain what you need to know.
Is It Worth Pursuing a Relationship with a Modern Woman?
The answer is a resounding 99% NO.
But why 99%? Let me explain. As mentioned earlier, feminism has spread across all sectors of society, from young girls to older women, influencing nearly every part of our lives. Even those who claim not to be feminists still benefit from the laws, rules, and actions that protect women. Feminism has infiltrated every corner of society—even in conservative churches. There is no escape. The reality is that you are likely to encounter a feminist at some point in your life, and while this might seem unimportant, it poses significant challenges when it comes to relationships.
Why Are Modern Women So Complicated?
Modern women often come with emotional baggage, a long history of relationships, and casual sexual encounters. This creates a host of issues that make it difficult for them to engage in stable, long-term relationships. Here’s the problem: while women today may be engaging in more sex than ever before, they are accustomed to a certain level of variety and freedom. It's no longer just one partner. They often have multiple sexual partners, sometimes dozens or even hundreds of men. When they enter into a monogamous relationship, the adjustment can be hard.
Relationships are supposed to be between one man and one woman, not a group of men and a woman. How is a woman who’s used to casual sex with numerous men supposed to behave in a committed relationship? Initially, everything may seem great. There’s excitement, passion, trips, and intimacy. But over time, that fades, and with it comes the inevitable conflicts. A modern woman, with her past experiences and desires, may find it hard to stick with one partner. Despite your best efforts, she may eventually cheat on you.
Modern Women Are Self-Centered and Emotionally Complex
Many modern women are also more self-centered and exhibit traits of immaturity. On top of that, the current legal and social systems tend to favor them. In today’s society, women have more financial independence than ever, and the traditional dependency on men is all but gone. As a result, the forced loyalty that used to exist no longer applies. I’ve witnessed this firsthand with a friend who helped his wife financially—buying her a car and setting her up with a business. What happened next? She became empowered, started treating him like a secondary option, and eventually ended their relationship.
Women today don’t need men for financial support, and many of them have started calling the shots in relationships. So, if you get involved with a modern woman, you need to understand that the rules have changed. She’s not looking for the same things as women did in the past. You may think you’re fulfilling her emotional needs or satisfying her physically, but that’s only temporary. When she gets bored, the relationship will crumble.
The Emotional Toll of Modern Relationships
As women increasingly engage in casual relationships, they may find themselves getting attached to certain men, even if it’s brief. But after multiple relationships, usually with “alpha” men, they’re bound to become emotionally drained. How do you think they’ll behave after so much emotional turmoil? If you’re the next man in line, you're in for a challenging experience. Women who have been through a series of failed relationships tend to bring their emotional baggage into future ones. As a result, your relationship will suffer, and what should be a healthy partnership will instead become toxic.
The past trauma from bad relationships will always linger, affecting their ability to trust. If she’s been cheated on before, that memory will haunt her. She may even think, “What if he’s doing the same thing I did?” This thought process makes it easier for her to justify cheating in the future, and in many cases, she will. Modern women are empowered, financially stable, and no longer rely on men in the same way they did in the past, so the “safety net” that used to keep them loyal is gone. This is why 99% of modern women are simply not suited for long-term relationships.
What About the 1%?
The remaining 1% of women who are different are incredibly hard to find—nearly impossible. If you do find one, it will likely be in a closed, tight-knit community, as only a few fathers are still teaching their daughters to avoid the traps of today’s feminist-driven world. So, if you're serious about finding a decent woman, you’ll need to either search in these closed communities or face the daunting reality that for every one good woman, there are a million who are emotionally scarred and unfaithful.
Stay tuned for the next post where I’ll delve deeper into how to find these rare women.
