When it comes to female behavior, especially in interactions with men, you can expect countless emotional and psychological mind games. If you're already experienced and understand how things work, this post might not add much to your knowledge. But for younger men, especially teenagers, this is essential so pay close attention.
Women love playing all kinds of games, but one of the most common and frustrating ones is the control game. This happens when a woman deliberately teases and provokes you sexually sometimes subtly, other times blatantly only to shut you down the moment you make a move. She builds up your desire, makes you crave her, and just when you act on it, she blocks you. Then, just when you think you’re done trying, she does it again, reeling you back in, only to reject you once more.
What she wants is control. She enjoys stirring your emotions, knowing that she has the power to arouse you while keeping you at a distance. This kind of dominance is becoming more common in modern women, many of whom have adopted masculine traits in their behavior (thanks to toxic feminist ideologies). Any man who has been through this knows how frustrating it is. I went through it countless times in my teenage years with my first girlfriends. Even now, despite being fully aware of these tricks, I still occasionally get tempted to fall into their trap. The irony is that if you ever turn the game around on them, they get furious yet they think it's fine to do it to you.
Let me share a personal experience from my teenage years. I had a neighbor who loved teasing me. She would sit on my lap, sometimes facing me, sometimes with her back turned. She would hug me, make suggestive movements, and find ways to get close in a provocative way. Naturally, I responded. If she hugged me from behind, I did the same. If she playfully smacked me, I returned the gesture. But every time I mirrored her actions, she would act as if I was crossing a line. It didn’t make sense to me at first—how could she start something and then act like I was wrong for responding? Eventually, I realized it was all a test—a way for her to measure my submission. If I accepted her rules and played along, she won. But if I ignored her provocations or refused to play her game, she lost. The worst thing you can do in these situations is to be reactive—especially with modern women who thrive on these power plays.
So, what’s the best way to handle this? Simple don’t fall for it. If she teases you, flirts, or gives mixed signals, don’t chase. That doesn’t mean rejecting her affection outright if she sits on your lap, let her. If she grinds against you, enjoy the moment. But don’t react to her game. If she wants you to play along just to stroke her ego, don’t take the bait. Sometimes, a woman may actually want to take things further, so you can try making a move once. But if she shuts you down, recognize it as a game and disengage. If she keeps teasing, let her put on her little show, but don’t give her the reaction she’s looking for. She’ll eventually realize that her tricks aren’t working on you and that’s when you truly win.
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